Relationships
Why Do Some People Like Controlling Others?
First of all, I want to make one thing clear: not every form of control is bad. Parents…
Author: San San
I’m an ordinary person who writes from observation, experience, and reflection. Through this blog, I share honest thoughts about emotions, relationships, personal growth, and the quiet lessons hidden in everyday life.
Relationships
Who Does Hatred Hurt? My Own Experience
Have you ever been in a situation where just thinking about certain people makes your heart sink? A…
Life Lessons
Some Things, Once Understood, Make Life Feel Lighter
There are things in life that only become lighter when we know when to stop. I have come…
Life Lessons
Regret Is Not Enough; What Matters Is Correcting Your Mistakes
Do you think that once someone has done something wrong or lost your trust, it becomes very hard…
Life Lessons
Not Every Long-Lasting Friendship Is Worth Keeping
Not every relationship that has lasted for many years still makes us feel comfortable. At some point, I…
Life Lessons
A Lesson in Speaking with Tact
After placing my trust in the wrong person, I learned an important lesson: words always need boundaries. Not…
Life Lessons
Why Do You Always Feel Exhausted Even When You Haven’t Done Anything Physically Demanding?
Have you ever come home from work, sat there in a daze, and felt completely drained, even though…
Life Lessons
Why Do We Always Feel Like Other People Are Judging Us?
After writing about overthinking, I realized there is another very familiar form of overthinking: the feeling that we…
Life Lessons
Learning to Build Confidence from the Ground Up
After gradually building confidence for myself through very small things, I still had one question I had not…
Mindset
6 Practical Steps to Reset Your Emotions When You Are About to Overreact
I used to think that if I wanted to feel better, I had to solve the problem immediately.…
Life Lessons
Learning to Set Boundaries Around the Word “Yes”
After the first time I said “No,” when I realized I had spent too long living just to…
Relationships
You Have the Right to Choose in Love Too
Love is not a one-sided selection process in which one person has the right to judge while the…