Mindset
My Experience of Breaking Free from Peer Pressure
I remember that for a long time after my high school reunion, I almost did not want to…
Author: San San
I’m an ordinary person who writes from observation, experience, and reflection. Through this blog, I share honest thoughts about emotions, relationships, personal growth, and the quiet lessons hidden in everyday life.
Mindset
How I Built My Confidence Through the Smallest Things
I have always been a rather shy person. I still remember one afternoon on National Day, when I…
Mindset
The Sweet Trap Called “Praise”
During my first few days at work, I was like a blank slate—eager and completely incapable of saying…
Relationships
Love and Possession: When Caring Becomes a Chain
I have a close friend. She once told me about a relationship that, at first glance, anyone would…
Relationships
Loving Someone vs. Loving the Feeling of Being Loved
I was once in a relationship that, from the outside, looked perfect. They were attentive, texted regularly, remembered…
Relationships
When Helping Others Becomes a Liability
It was quite late one evening. I was on my way home from meeting a friend when, near…
Relationships
The Key to Opening Your Heart Again After Being Hurt
I once had a very close friend, at least that was what I had always believed. That person…
Relationships
When Kindness “Enables” a Mistake: Where Is the Limit?
I have a friend. He isn’t the type to preach about morality or kindness, but he lives it…
Mindset
Losing Myself in the Crowd
There was a period in my life when I had “learned” to fit in very well. I said…
Mindset
Learning to Understand Priorities Different from My Own
Have you ever realized that the more you try to change yourself or change someone else in order…
Life Lessons
When the Fear of Losing Your Job Sets In: 4 Ways That Help Me Stay Calmer
I remember the days when my company began moving toward a merger with a large corporation. Rumors about…
Life Lessons
One Failure Does Not Make You a Failure
I once left my job to pursue a path that I believed was more suitable for me. I…